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Elizabeth  Sweeney's avatar

These discoveries opened something in you. Such vulnerability

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Elizabeth

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Jacqueline C's avatar

Your mom's painting of your dolls' house is extraordinarily beautiful.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Jacqueline. I love that series, even though it’s fraught for me. And thank you so much for all your support. It means so much and helps me have patience with myself.

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Elizabeth McKoy's avatar

Such an interesting parallel to the Erica/Molly story. I had a wild 70's mom in NYC too- but nothing like what you experienced. Keep writing!

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Love finding my people!

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The Hollow Girl's avatar

What beautiful synchronicity, as I unearth stories of my broken home and delusional mother.

Your piece made me nod in agreement, scowl with anger, laugh and feel sad. So relatable.

'Her mother breathed out to the page what she breathed in all around her' your writing breathes too.

Thank you.

And if you ever have a chance to dip into my new, raw and baby-like memoir (compared to yours and Molly Jong-Fast's ) I would be honoured.

I'm any case. Grateful to have found you.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you! I look forward to checking out your stack.

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Wendy Varley's avatar

The trail of breadcrumbs is a great way to describe the way you're retracing your mother's steps, Eliza. Fascinating overlaps with Erica Jong and Molly. (I read The Fear of Flying when I was 19 and had just left home for the first time and it made such an impact!) It's great to hear Mimi's and Erica's voices on the recording you linked to.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Wendy. It’s intense to consider the eras my parents traversed, and now how long ago this all is..

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Jill Swenson's avatar

How interesting! Great ending.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thanks Jill :)

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