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Liz Curry's avatar

Eliza, I'm so sad for you that Mary Jane is gone from your life, but clearly you've preserved so much of her in your writing. I can't imagine how grateful she must have felt to have you close by to visit with her and share your discoveries as you delved deeper into writing since you're parents have died, and also to have the connection with your mother in person and through her painting. I met her once at an odd party and when she talked about you her eyes lit up and her whole face lifted. She was so proud of you, like the flowers she'd grown to surround her with beauty and grace. Your writing is stellar.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

That’s so lovely to hear. Thank you, Liz

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Rona Maynard's avatar

Eliza, I know the ache and the gratitude you evoke here. Beautifully done. I am sprry for the loss of your irreplaceable mentor.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Rona. And thank you for inspiring so many on this platform.

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Anita Jacobs's avatar

An amazing thing that you were in each other’s lives on such a deep level all these years. She sounds like an amazing human

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Yes. I was so lucky

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Sonia's avatar

Eliza, so sorry about your loss. This is a beautiful piece and she would surely be very proud of you! Warm hugs.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Sonia

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Amber Haller's avatar

What a gift to have this connection with your mentor up until she left this life. I loved this piece, Eliza.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Amber

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Tina Hedin's avatar

“The people who bring us to our craft are holy.”

Beautiful story and tribute to your mentor.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Tina.

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Maria (Linnesby essays)'s avatar

Beautifully written, beautifully shared. I am so sorry for your loss.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Maria

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Chris S's avatar

Such a lovely tribute. You two have been singing each other’s praises for decades. Love and hugs.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thanks, Chris ♥️

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Fonda's avatar

I am so sorry to hear of your lost mentor but, know she would be so proud of how beautifully you write about her. You made her come alive to me. I felt her value.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Fonda

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Amy Cowen's avatar

This is a beautiful tribute piece. This kind of mentorship and friendship is such a special thing to have had as an adult. I am sorry for your loss.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Amy

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Melanie Brotz's avatar

Eliza - this is such a touching and evocative tribute to your friend and mentor. Your sharing of bits of memories if beautiful. Sending love

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Melanie

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Susan Walp's avatar

I am so sorry for your loss, Eliza. Thank you for another beautiful and insightful piece of writing. And I also loved the poem.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Susan

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Susan R Eastman's avatar

Sorry for your loss...

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Susan

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Susan R Eastman's avatar

Say "hi" to Kim from Maine...

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Amy  Goldman's avatar

Ah, the myriad of losses we endure as adults. May you be comforted by your memories. Thank you for sharing the poem, so fitting.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Amy

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Marjorie Hamrell's avatar

Oh my, what a loss to the world but especially you! But maybe not a loss as she is deeply within your heart and soul. You sound as if you were a great friend! Loved this piece of work!

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Thank you, Marge

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Sarah Bush's avatar

Beautiful. I welled up reading her poem.

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Eliza Anderson's avatar

Right??

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