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Thank you for this beautiful story. And Lennarts work is masterful and beautiful. I imagine you are familiar with "Night Studio" written by Musa Mayer the daughter of artist Philip Guston?

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Thank you, Lora! And yes, I loved that book, and was especially delighted when I found a letter from Philip Guston to my father in the loft…

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Oh wow!

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Wonderful that you are able to join these dots, Eliza. Earle's artwork, "gagged", is so startling. And I love your father's portrait of Ruben.

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Thank you, Wendy.

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Thanks Eliza. I didn’t know this story although I knew the paintings. Beautifully written also. Love your family. D.

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Thank you, Dotty

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There is something about a man's hands that reveals so much and yet is so intimate. From the physicality of the scar -- the meat of his hand -- emerges the metaphorical meanings.

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Yes..

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I really enjoyed this, thank you. I really must read your Substack more often as I’m never disappointed! Keep up the lovely writing! ✍🏼

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Thank you so much, Swindon

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You’re welcome. Swindon is the town I live in 😂

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I looked up your profile! To get it right. Sigh

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lol it’s ok, I can see how it’s easily done! 👍

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You write with such simplicity, passion and grace. I think you were born to write a memoir and I hope you’re already working on it. My God, that artwork!

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Thank you, Miranda. Yes, I have a memoir manuscript. This substack was created to write beyond it and generate interest (and future readership!) Thank you for the kind words.

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So well written as usual . What a fascinating family story you are sharing. Thank you for your efforts to put this into words!

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Thank you for reading, Marge!

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Thanks for these connections and the shout out, Eliza. The overlaps have meant a lot to me as we’ve compared notes!

I love the portraits of Ruben and your opening made me remember my father’s hands vividly— with blunt square-tipped fingers.

I don’t know that Earle was any good with a jigsaw but he was great with a measuring tape—

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Amazing story!!!

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Thank you, Dotty!

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Fascinating how you are uncovering details and making connections with others on a similar journey!

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It’s so satisfying!

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Thank you for the link the Victoria’s blog. I recently heard that style of coming out referred to as; dragging others into the closet with you.

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Sounds about right

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So beautifully expressed.

I have an ancient card picturing the dollhouse.

Such greatness from you all

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